Performance anxiety and intimacy
I created From Pressure to Presence for men who find themselves watching, worrying or comparing during intimacy instead of feeling what is happening. It offers an invitation to put down performance and return to your body.
Through tantric breath, energy and presence, I explore fear, shame, the inner watcher and a partner's perspective. The practices are gentle and powerful, and they meet you exactly where you are.
Inside you will discover
- Twelve explained tantric practices with solo and partner options
- Performance anxiety, comparison and the pressure to always be ready
- Fear, shame, the solar plexus and the ego through a spiritual lens
- A partner's perspective and keeping everyday attention alive
- A suggested 30 day journey, with options for single men
- Words you can use, common questions and a quick reference page for anxious moments
For men of any age and whoever they love, single or partnered, and partners who want to understand. The thirty days are a beginning for practice, not a deadline or a guarantee of change.
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